Relationship is something which stays even after you cross the Rubicon. It takes time to develop a relationship even when you are practicing it among your family members.
The only relationship which is formed even before birth is the relationship with your mother. Except this, every relationship is developed by us for us.
Every relationship has its own reasoning and its own needs of fulfillment. Is there any relationship without reasoning? If so, it's not going to be understood or recognized. But you have recognized it and given due respect to it and you have to nourish it.
Relationship is like a plant which needs basic elements like soil, water, air and sunlight to grow. It needs Honesty, Faith, Clarity and finally the cause to evolve.
If any of the four things are missing, this plant is not going to grow at its full strength. Even if it grows it might take a path which might be unhealthy for us.
You need years to build a relationship with a known person. Faith is the most important part of any relationship. If it prevails, most of the relationship around you is going to withstand any climatic changes. Whenever the element of faith vanishes the relationship starts its downfall. In order to have healthy relationships one should first have faith in oneself.
Just like 'Charity begins at home' same way 'Relationship begins with oneself'.
You need to have a clear relationship with yourself. You should be able to communicate between heart and mind. A minor blockage would damage the flow of faith in you. So, in order to build a healthy relationship you should have a sound relationship with yourself.
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